They’ll stand up for their friends, throw showers and even shell out for a dress they’ll never wear again. (C’mon – who are we kidding?) So it’s only fitting when you get married – or help plan a wedding – that the bridesmaids are shown appreciation for all of the things they do for the bride along the way. If you’re considering those cute “Bridesmaid” emblazoned hoodies, t-shirts, robes or other garments, then you may want to keep looking. Those items will be worn about as often as the dress in the ceremony. It may make for a cute photo op, but giving only those items as gifts won’t be appreciated. Consider the individual personalities of the bridesmaids as you choose. The party may comprise ladies who you don’t know very well – whether they’re close family members of the groom or vary in age and interests. A no-nonsense, practical girl may not appreciate a spa gift certificate, for example.

A monogrammed lunch tote may be a cute idea for some of the bridesmaids, but a stay-at-home mom may not appreciate it. Monogramming does offer a personal touch and is a nice way to recognize each bridesmaid, so why not add it to a piece of jewelry or a tote? How about both? A bracelet with a monogrammed charm encased in a pretty jewelry tote would be a perfect gift. Give her something that caters to her interests, whether they’re sports, music, crafts or even charity. An animal lover may appreciate a donation to her favorite rescue organization, or a concert aficionado may enjoy tickets to a show. Not a lot of money to lavish on the ladies? That’s OK – a handmade photo album with treasured memories or some sort of masterpiece that shows off your own skills and is made with love is enough. Just be sure that what you bestow on your bridesmaids is enough to show your gratitude.