Looking for an out-of-this-world sexual experience? Many people turn to cyberspace for gratification. Whether single, committed or somewhere in between, cyberspace often seems like a harmless way to have some naughty fun free of consequences. With cybersex, individuals achieve sexual gratification through instant text messages or video chats. Serious cybersex aficionados may even don virtual reality equipment. These virtual encounters seem like a big deal because there is no physical interaction with another person, eliminating the risk of pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. In fact, the outcome of cybersex usually involves participants pleasuring themselves. In many cases, cybersex is often had with anonymous partners, so there is no inherent risk of any emotional complications. This begs the question — is cybersex really cheating? It really all depends on who you ask.

Some people believe that because there is no actual touching involved, it doesn’t constitute adultery. However, there is a whole ‘nother school of thought that believes cybersex actually causes stress on a relationship, especially when online encounters blossom into Internet romances. Cybersex can also become an addiction, which creates an entire set of problems for a couple. While cybersex may be a gray area as far as cheating is concerned, it is pretty safe to say that if you are doing something behind your partner’s back, it probably isn’t healthy for your relationship. If you really aren’t certain whether cybersex constitutes cheating, talk to your partner. Communicate. Raise the discussion if it means that much to you. If you aren’t comfortable talking about cybersex with your partner, you probably already know the answer to the million-dollar question.