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8 Hot Ways to Turn Him On

At the beginning of a relationship, everything is hot. You're exploring each other's bodies, wants and needs for the first time, and it's exciting. He wants you all the time, in every position possible and in every location of the house (maybe even out in public!) Let's just say you're not complaining about it.

Too bad nothing lasts forever - not even those steamy sexcapades.{relatedarticles}

Once the newness wears off, your sex life just isn't the same. Your man is either out with the boys or glued to the television. It often feels like he doesn't have the time of day - or night -- for you or your needs.

But all is not lost. There are ways to turn up the heat when he's turned into a cold fish. The trick is to make him want you more than that beer with his bros. When you're lacking inspiration, look to these eight effective ways to get him going.


Wake Him Up with Sexiness


Guys are notorious for waking ready and raring to go. Work this to your advantage. Set your alarm a few minutes earlier than your man's, slip out of your nightie and wake him up with a little sexiness.

Crawl under the covers and snuggle up to him so he feels your lack of clothing. Kiss him gently, and whisper sexy ideas in his ear. You'll have him fully awake and alert in no time! He'll love your spontaneity, and you'll help him kick his day off to a great start!{relatedarticles}


Sneak in the Shower with Him


While he's sudsing up in the morning, quietly sneak in the bathroom and slip off your clothes. Pull the curtain back slightly, and sneak in while he's turned the other direction. Wrap your arms around him from behind and start kissing his neck.

You'll startle, excite and turn him on all at the same time. And -- big bonus -- the shower makes for easy cleanup after you're done!


Dance for Him


If you've got moves, show them off! Turn undressing into a slow and sexy striptease. One button at a time, start to remove your clothing piece by piece and give him just a little peek of what's to come. Turn on some smooth jazz or R&B to really amp up the mood.

He'll be on edge waiting for that last piece of clothing to disappear but it's doubtful he'll be able to wait that long. He'll be ripe for the picking in just minutes!

Giddy Up!


Every man loves a cowgirl, right? Forget the standard missionary position; it's time for you to get on top. Saddle up and ride your guy like a pony. Yell "yee haw" and pretend your lassoing cow-poke if you have to; just do whatever you need to do to get in the moment.{relatedarticles}

In addition to not having to do all the work, your man will love your take-charge attitude, and you'll both find pleasure in the exciting position!


Get Bossy


Sometimes, guys get tired of being in charge. Making all the moves can get exhausting and tiresome; that's when it's your turn to take on the boss role.

Take charge of the intimate times with your man. Tell him what you want him to do to you, where you want him to do it, and how hard. Be blunt and direct. You'll command respect and look hot doing it. Your man won't be anything but turned on by your new boss-lady persona!


Make Him Beg


We all know: guys want sex. So why give them what they want so easily?

Play hard to get. Make your man tell you what he wants you to do, and make him beg for it. Then make sure he tells you what you'll get in return. He needs to make you a deal you can't refuse and get down on his knees to do it!{relatedarticles}

Don't just give it all up for a simple "please." It's a win-win for both of you, and your man will be super turned on by your take-charge attitude.



Talk Dirty


Anyone can whisper "I love you" in someone's ear during sex. If you really want to turn your man on, though, you need to push the envelope a little more.

Sexily tell your partner your deepest fantasies: what you want him to do, and where you want it done. Make demands, give him direction and use those naughty words you were taught not to use as a kid. They'll shock him, turn him on and make him want you all at once.

Don't be afraid to be blunt or crude. In the heat of the moment, your man will welcome the sexy surprise.{relatedarticles}

Be a Tease


There's nothing a guy wants more than what he can't have. It's like the little kid in the playroom; he has to have the same toy that someone else is already playing with. You just have to learn to translate this to the bedroom.


So put on your sexiest dress, curl your hair and cuddle up real close to him on the couch. As soon as he clues into your strong signals, let the teasing begin. Be coy, don't give up kisses too easily and make him work for it! You could have any guy you want, right? He needs to show you why he's the one you should be with tonight!{relatedarticles}

This will drive him crazy. Just a few minutes in, he'll want you so bad he can't stand it. Prepare for major ravaging! If you've hit a standstill in your love life, try some of these tips out to reignite the spark. They won't just keep him in your life; they'll keep you satisfied, too!


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How To Get Your Spouse To Love You Again

Amuro Wesley

If your spouse is no longer in love with you as when you are dating, do not panic. However bad the situation may be, there is still a way for you to rekindle your relationship and get your spouse to love you again.

The first step is understanding. It is very easy for you to connect losing the feelings of being in love with actually loving each other when it is no longer the case. After their dating days have ended, the couples no longer feel the same excitement and sexual attachment as before. {relatedarticles}

Unlike dating, there are more commitments and responsibilities in marriage. Unlike those you face in school and work, these will be what we need to face for the next 10, 20 or even 30 years down the road and even more so when you have children.

Love is more than just being fond of that person and expressing your feelings for him or her. It is all about caring, sharing and even sacrificing everything you have if the situation requires be it from your spouse, children or both. That includes the things you love and freedom you cherish during your single days.

Every single thing you do be it work, spending money and even hobbies, you need to take their feelings into consideration. Such as telling and discussing with them even though there is a possibility of them not agreeing with you all the time.

It is never easy but this is what love is really all about whether you agree with what I just mentioned or not. If you cannot forsake certain things like playing video games, watching movies and shopping, then marriage and even parenthood is not for you.{relatedarticles}

Even when you have a steady stream of regular and passive income, you still need to set aside some time for your spouse and children. Not once or twice a week but every single day.

Every relationship has 4 stages as in falling in love, honeymoon bliss, disagreements and then being stronger or weaker in marriages.

Just because we find fault with each other, it is very easy for positive feelings to fade. It takes proper undersanding or even dire circumstances - when we are forced to work together - to build our relationship all over again.

Love is a commitment and responsibility. You cannot just express verbally but through actions and sacrifices I already mentioned. Mature couples love each other as a whole and not by looks and circumstances alone.

The next step is to spend quality time talking and listening to your spouse. If you both do not talk, it is very hard to cultivate feelings for each other and for your relationship to grow further.{relatedarticles}

Finally, give in to your spouse without expecting anything in return. This will make you a more mature person in the eyes of your spouse.

Understanding, spending time and accommodating are small things that you should do everyday to build trust, intimacy and love with each other.

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Women: Make Love Like a Man

art35984Sex is healthy - it burns calories, prevents heart disease, encourages low blood pressure, keeps your stress in check and tones up your muscles. As a matter of scientific fact, at least 2 orgasms per week can even increase your life expectancy. That's right: have sex often, live a long life.

Besides, if sex is what makes the world go round, then women are truly masters of the universe.

However, we could take a page out of the male book every once in a while. Men don't want to have sex because it's healthy for them; they want to have sex because it feels good and because they cannot get it out of the minds, not even for a moment.

For a man, sex is natural, it's fun, and there's rarely a bad time to have it. There's plenty we can learn from this kind of attitude about sex and plenty of benefits to reap from having sex like a man.

Skip the Foreplay

Men are notorious for trying to rush straight to it, and while women typically chide this over-eager take on sex, it can be beneficial to your sex life to indulge in the occasional quickie.

The reason for the difference between the sexes on this one is pretty clear: men can go from zero to orgasm in as little as 90 seconds. It's downright rare for a woman to be able to accomplish the same feat, no matter how talented or well-acquainted her partner is with her preferences.


But skipping foreplay doesn't mean that it's all about getting to the finish line. Spontaneity can add unappreciated dimensions to your sex life. Experiment with a quickie in the shower before you start your day and you won't be able to wipe the grin off your face. Simply altering your normal routine can add excitement.

Just don't expect to have a mind-bending orgasm, although that's not necessarily out of the question. Also, don't you have other things to do? Check this one off the list and get to that Mad Men marathon you've been dying to start.

Take Control

If your love life has hit a plateau (and not the good kind), then consider initiating sex and taking the lead. You know what you like and you're much more likely to get the satisfaction you crave if you handle the navigation for your partner.

We might not always think about it, but it's normal for men to feel a degree of pressure during intercourse, particularly when it's expected for them to take the lead. Any failure to excite may feel like a failure on their part, which can make some men less likely to try something different.

And, if you're like 80% of most women, orgasm from penetration might not always be a reality, so tell him what you like and what you don't, and don't be afraid to get on top. Not to mention, men love when women take the lead in sex.


Keep the Lights On

What grows by 30% when a man is aroused? That's right: the pupil of the eye. Men are visual creatures, and visual stimulation has a powerful effect on their arousal, but they're not the only ones. Women might enjoy sex in the light more if they were more confident in their bodies.

The truth of the matter is that you will always be more critical of your body than your man ever will. In all likelihood, men are far too enraptured by their sexual arousal to nitpick their own insecurities about their bodies - or yours.

Besides, men love a woman who's confident about her own body, no matter the size or shape. Your man already knows what you look like underneath your clothes, so why hide what you both know he likes in the dark?

So what can you do to increase your self-confidence? Work on it outside the bedroom, whether it's:

  • joining a fitness class;
  • picking up an active hobby; or
  • simply self-affirming your own natural beauty while standing naked in front of a mirror every day.


It's a known fact that men masturbate - perhaps that they even love to masturbate. Men are twice as likely to masturbate as women, and if you glance at the headlines every now and again, you'll see men getting caught pulling it out and tugging on it in public places. It's an impulse they simply cannot resist.


Unlike some (not all) women, most men don't stop masturbating once they're in a relationship, but women typically feel that their sexual satisfaction is spoken for once they're going steady, and quite frankly, that's a real shame.

Masturbating not only helps you understand what you like, but it also keeps your libido high. Women who feel more comfortable masturbating are far more likely to reach climax because they know what they like and they're more confident about showing their partner.

Moral of the story: plan some more private time in your schedule, and don't be shy about introducing masturbation during lovemaking.

Have Sex Because it's Fun and Don't Fake It

Men are brought up by culture and society to believe that their enjoyment of sex is both natural and acceptable, but women are made to feel that if they enjoy sex, something is wrong with them. That's just downright untrue.

Have sex just for the fun of it. Men often act on their sexual impulses, whereas women typically repress them or turn their minds to something else. If you're in the mood, just make a move. Orgasms release feel-good chemicals in your brain that will help you relax and hormones that give your hair, skin, and even your nails a special shine.

Also - don't fake it. Men rarely, if ever, fake an orgasm, so why should you feel pressured into pretending you're satisfied when you're not? Men appreciate honesty, as long as it's expressed in a constructive manner.

To conclude, don't be afraid to experiment with a new perspective. Enjoy the occasional quickie, take control of your lovemaking, have sex with the lights on, masturbate, and engage in sex just for the pure liberation of it.

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