It's that time of year when school is out, and kids are out and about with their parents. Whether it's the mall, the pool, museums, zoos or other public place, it's possible that you and your child could be separated. It's so easy for a child to get lost with all the fun distractions of public places - either she lingers at an exhibit while the rest of the family moves on, or she's there one second and blending into the crowd the next. {relatedarticles}Having a plan and teaching your child what to do when she gets separated from you in public can reduce panic - hers and yours. Help your kids find you faster by doing what the experts recommend. First, teach your child from a very early age what your name - your real name - is. In a sea of mommies, the cry of "Mommy!" doesn't get much attention. However, when your child calls you by first and last name, then there's no case of mistaken identity.
Even more helpful is teaching your child your phone number - particularly your cell phone number, if you have one. When she finds an adult who can help her, then she can have that adult call you. Teach your child which adults are acceptable to ask for help. Point out security officers, employees and other "officials" as soon as you arrive at your destination to teach her whom she should seek if she gets lost. {relatedarticles}Failing those, let your child know that moms who have little kids are OK to ask for help, too. When you get to your destination, go over a map and point out information booths to your child. Always carry a recent photo of the child so that she is easy to identify for employees and security personnel. Make the most of teachable moments - ask your 3-year-old what she would do if she were to get lost when you're in the midst of a crowded place. This way, children are prepared before they ever get separated.