How to Discipline When Kids Are Careless
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2. Jake's teacher called to say he forgot his homework for the ninth time this month. She wonders if he really does his homework. You assure her that he does. She tells you, "I'll have to lower his grades." You've lectured Jake to put his homework in his backpack. Jake would rather watch TV than hear your voice. You know he doesn't listen. What to do?
3. Jessica lost her lunch money again. She calls you from the principal's office, "Mom, I lost my lunch money. Buy me a hamburger and a shake."
You're at work. You don't want the principal to think you're heartless. You don't want your boss upset by your leaving another important meeting for Jessica again. You feel trapped. What to do?
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A big part of parenting is teaching kids to be responsible. When kids treat gifts, homework, and money carelessly, some parents fume inside and feel like failures.
Many parents replace broken toys with new toys, do their kids' homework, and rush to solve their kids' problems. These parents prevent their children from pain. These children fail to experience the logical consequences of their careless actions. They grow into careless adults. They know others will take care of them.
As a parent, you have discipline choices. Consider the logical consequences below:
1. When Amy leaves her bike out, don't talk, act. Wake her. Tell her to clean her bike and bring it inside. Don't react to her grumbles. Put a lock on her bike and decide how long to keep it locked. Tell Amy. Be firm.
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