There’s safety in numbers, particularly when it comes to dating. That’s why a fun, low-pressure first or second date is better with another couple. Extra people in the mix have several benefits. First, awkward conversation lags are kept to a minimum, and there’s usually no pressure to get romantic with others around. But there are a few things to keep in mind when you’re organizing a double date. First, be sure that the counterparts get along. That is, if there are opposite-sex couples involved, the women should be somewhat compatible, and so should the men. Arrange the date on “neutral ground” – that is, choose a place or activity that everyone will enjoy. Not sure if the other couple are fans of baseball? Don’t take the liberty of buying tickets to the game for the four of you before asking.

Consider your budget and that of the other couple before planning as well. A fancy restaurant with a big-ticket bill can be a mood killer, and splitting the bill can get uncomfortable when one couple orders more than the other. Dinner at a restaurant usually is a safe option, however. It may seem tempting to have it at someone’s home, but then one couple has the “home team” advantage and things could get uncomfortable. To keep things exciting and appeal to all the parties on the date, why not have a “progressive” dinner? Have appetizers and drinks at one restaurant, then stroll over to another one for the main course. Finish up at a coffee shop, where you can have dessert and coffee. That way, everyone finds something they enjoy. Another fun date idea is attending a wine or beer tasting, but avoid activities that could encourage heavy drinking – having one too many can make things awkward for everyone.