Need a little variety in your sex life? Are you single with no one to mingle? Either way, investing in a few sex toys can spice things up. But if you're a novice, then it can be really intimidating and weird to walk into a sex shop to examine their wares, not to mention a potential waste of time and money. The first thing you should do before investing in a toy that may or may not be effective for you -- and your partner, if you have one -- is figure out what kind of accessory might stimulate you the best. Are you looking for a mutual experience with the toy? If so, then a double-ended one might be a smart choice. For solo play, it's important to know if you prefer clitoral or vaginal stimulation -- or both. A small bullet might do the trick if all you're looking for is clitoral stimulation; however, you might prefer being penetrated. There are also toys that do both jobs for maximum pleasure.