You've put in the time with your man - you're committed to one another and things are great. So where's your ring? Perhaps it's under the Christmas tree or waiting in a glass of champagne on New Year's Eve. If you're hoping that's the case, then there are a few ways you can ensure a holiday proposal. First, take a look at your relationship. If you're in your 20s, then perhaps your man feels he isn't where he needs to be in his career in order to start a life with you. "Men under 32 need a lot more time to propose," says April Beyer, CEO and Founder of the matchmaking firm Beyer & Co, which specializes in getting men ready for -- and to -- the altar. Look for the signs that he is committed to you and does someday want to get married - living together is an obvious one, but others include the verbal intention that he wants to marry you, loves you, and makes you feel valued and special. This way, an honest discussion of your relationship won't scare him or cause him to run for the hills. And yes - talking frankly about where you'd like to see the relationship go is a must.