The same goes for being strung along - if he's just calling or texting once or twice a week, then wants to make plans at the last minute, then you're not his main priority. Do you find yourself running errands, cooking, cleaning or doing laundry for him? If he's not helping you out in a similar way, then you've just become his doormat. It's fine to cook for a man - the way to his heart is through his stomach, after all - but perhaps he can do the dishes or show gratitude in some other way. If you find yourself bending over backward to stay in the good graces of your man, then he may be taking advantage of you. No one deserves that, so understand what your own personal boundaries are, and don't let a man cross them, no matter what.