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They're the stuff that dreams are made of. We're talking about Hollywood's hottest heartthrobs. Whether it's their captivating looks or their overall charisma, these are the guys that sell tickets and drive ratings. You'd be hard-pressed to find a woman who doesn't have a celebrity fantasy. But before you go feeling guilty over those good feelings, consider this -- these harmless daydreams can actually help, not hinder, your relationship. So says renowned sex expert Ian Kerner.
Kerner, the founder of goodinbed.com and numerous self-help books, tells the TODAY show: "Fantasies are a very normal part of sexuality. Having a celebrity crush is way better than fantasizing about a "real' person. It could be a good way to spice things up with your partner - if you have a good, trusting relationship. It's a great way to start a conversation with your partner around sex."
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So long as these handsome hunks run a close second to the leading men in your life, it's all good. Now check out who makes MyDailyMoment's list of the most in-demand male celebs.
1. Johnny Depp
This is not the first list of sexy male celebs that Johnny Depp can find his name on, and it is likely not to be the last. Depp is beloved for numerous roles on the big screen, including his bad-boy movie persona in the Pirates of the Caribbean series. Now, in 2012, Johnny Depp joins a long line of sexy vampire actors (hello Robert Pattinson) with his new movie Dark Shadows. This is sure to make the sexy star an even hotter it.
2. Robert Pattinson
Robert Pattinson, the man who started the vampire craze himself, can't be left off of any list of celebs who make women crazy. Pattinson captured the hearts of Twilight fans young and old, including Twilight moms and teens, when he took on the role of sexy-but-controlling Edward Cullen, despite his public commentary mocking the series.
Pattinson's pale good looks made him attractive to more than just Twilight lovers, however, and fans are eager to see what Pattinson will do next. With rumors perhaps finally confirmed of a relationship between Pattinson and Twilight co-star Kristen Stewart, many in the industry and on online blogs are asking whether this off-screen couple would be willing to star in the upcoming erotic Fifty Shades of Grey movie that was loosely based off of a Twilight fan fiction story. Based on their huge cheating scandal, it's highly unlikely now.
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3. Chris Hemsworth
Australian actor Chris Hemsworth is perhaps best known for his role in the 2011 film Thor, but also has several big-screen credits to his name in 2012 including The Avengers and The Cabin in the Woods. As if a starring role in the well-received movie The Avengers isn't enough, Chris Hemsworth has also been recently featured in tabloid presses hitting the streets of London with his baby daughter India Rose in a baby carrier on his chest. Nothing like a sexy family man to get women going.
4. Brad Pitt
Pitt's recent engagement to Angelina Jolie - along with the gorgeous ring he got her - has done nothing to reduce the sex appeal of this longtime hot male celeb. Pitt's film Killing Them Softly with Andrew Dominik is sure to be a crowd pleaser and is considered one of the most anticipated films of 2012. The crime drama is set in the American west and is based on the novel Cogan's Trade.
5. Zac Efron
Zac Efron may have gotten his start on the Disney Channel, but today he is an undisputed movie star and a hot sex symbol for millions of women. Efron was recently in the feature film At Any Price, which was well-received at Cannes Film Festival and recently acquired for foreign distribution by Exclusive Media. The film features Efron as a man determined to become a race car driver at any price - including failing to live up to his obligations on his family's farm.
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Continuing on with our list of 10 male celebrities who drive women crazy, we're down to the last 5 slots to fill. There are so many male celebs on the big and small screen that exude sex appeal that it is hard to pick just 10. Still, these 10 are top male movie stars and men who have been recognized over the world for their amazing looks and their ability to drive women wild.
6. Josh Holloway
Josh Holloway captured hearts and minds as Sawyer in the famous TV series Lost. Everyone loves a bad boy and Holloway did not disappoint as the troubled love interest in the love triangle completed by the characters of Jack and Kate. Recently, Holloway has moved to the big screen with the action flicks Mission: Impossible - Ghost Protocol and Battle of the Year: The Dream Team. His stunning sex appeal in movies continues to make him one of the hottest male celebs.
7. Jake Gyllenhaal
Oscar-nominated Jake Gyllenhaal has had a busy year already wrapping up his role as cop in the upcoming End of Watch. He is also scheduled to premiere this summer in an off-Broadway production at the Roundabout Theatre Company in New York called "If There is I Haven't Found it Yet." Rumors that he is hooking up with a Twilight Star have many women jealous as they admire his sexy and smoldering good looks.
8. Rafael Nadal
Nadal proves that not every sexy celebrity has to be a movie star - his athletic prowess helps to drive plenty of women crazy. Nadal's moves on the tennis court and his rugged good looks make him a top fantasy figure to many women. If he manages to win a seventh French Open title this summer, his status as a sex symbol is sure to rise even higher.
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9. Will Smith
While Will Smith has been out of the spotlight for several years, he's not out of the hearts and minds of women. For those who can't get enough of the former Fresh Prince of Bellaire, this sexy male celeb will soon be back on the big screen in the long-awaited Men in Black 3. His long and devoted marriage to Jada Pinkett is not in trouble though, according to a recent statement he made, despite rumors to the contrary. If it was, there would be many women in line willing to help pick up the pieces and provide comfort.
10. Ashton Kutcher
Unlike Smith's divorce rumors, Kutcher really did publicly split with his former love-interest Demi Moore. This public breakup has not dulled his sex appeal, however. Now, with rumors that Kutcher will be cast as Steve Jobs in an upcoming bio pic, the young actor will be given a chance to expand his film repertoire into a new sort of role if he stars as the charismatic entrepreneur.
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Announcements have also been made that Kutcher will be back for another season of Two and a Half Men, giving women the chance to see him on both big screen and small.
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You can't really be held accountable for what you say in the bedroom, right? Your hormones are raging, adrenaline is pumping, and you're totally controlled by your urges. In the heat of the moment, it's easy to just say what comes to mind without thinking first.
But some things can have serious repercussions if they slip out while you're doing the dirty. Keep your lips sealed and avoid saying these 10 things during sex, if you know what's good for you.{relatedarticles}
I love you. (Unless you've already said it before)
If you haven't said "I love you" to the person you're in bed with before, don't say it to them now. Yes, we know you're just in the moment and may not mean it, but if you say it to someone you just met, you'll look like a bona fide crazy person. If you say it to someone you've been casually dating for a while, but haven't gotten serious with, you'll surely scare him off with your bold declaration.
Either way, your romp is over; there's just no way to win with this one. So just keep it simple: Moan, breathe, and call him baby.
Hurry up!
Sometimes it's not the best sex of your life, but rushing your bedmate will only make it worse. Telling him to hurry up will let him know you're not having fun, and it will seriously detract from his performance. You don't want it to get worse, do you?{relatedarticles}
The best thing you can do is just let him have his fun, and try to enjoy yourself. Play into it, act like you love it, and when he's finished, kick him to the curb and never ask him back up. It's as simple as that.
Will you marry me?
Whoa, whoa, whoa. Slow down there, girl. It's wonderful if you're having such great sex that you want to lock the guy down for the rest of your life, but this isn't the time or place. Bringing up the "m" word is guaranteed to end your night early and maybe even scare your guy off for good.
If you really want to commit to this guy, show him by being really into him in the bedroom. He'll love the attention, and maybe, just maybe, he'll think about asking you on another date.
My ex used to do it this way: (insert description here).
Bringing up past sexual partners is a sure-fire way to insecurity. Don't make your current bedmate feel like he's not good enough, otherwise you're the one who will feel the consequences. If he doesn't feel sexy, he can't give you the sexy. Got it?{relatedarticles}
If there's something you want him to do, take command and show him, but don't bring up exes or old flames; you're only going to make him jealous and turned off.
The wrong name.
This one's bad. There's no quicker way to end a romp than by calling someone by the wrong name. If you're unsure of your partner's name - don't attempt to say it at all. If you somehow get it right, you're in the clear; however, if you get it wrong (which is pretty likely) you're in the doghouse. It's disrespectful, rude, and shows them you were really just in it for the sex all along. If you're questioning their name in any way: don't say it. And definitely don't guess.
Don't tell my boyfriend.
When a guy hears this, it's a huge cue to slam on the brakes. One, they're violating man code: they shouldn't be with someone else's girl. Two, what if the boyfriend is bigger than him? What if he's a real tough guy with anger issues?
A guy isn't going to get beat up just for a one-night stand. You can bet your bedmate will bolt if he hears this red flag phrase.
Are those real?
If they don't bring it up, you shouldn't either. If you're with someone who's had plastic surgery, they're likely proud of it - and will have no problem showing it off or telling you about it. If you suspect they've had surgery, but they don't mention it, don't bring it up.{relatedarticles}
If you're wrong, it could be offensive and, most likely, mood-killing. So save yourself the trouble and keep your lips sealed. Just enjoy the view.
Thanks.
Nothing makes someone feel used more than saying "thank you" after a romp in the sack. You should both enjoy yourselves and receive mutual satisfaction. Thanks shouldn't be necessary; if they are, someone's doing something wrong.
Unless you're paying your partner for the dirty (which is illegal in most states), just tell them you had fun. Save the thanks for your waiter at dinner.
Let's turn the lights off.
We all like to feel sexy and shown off. Telling someone you want to turn the lights off is like saying, "I just don't want to look at you." It's a one-way ticket to insecurity and hurt feelings for your partner, both of which will put a major damper on your sexy session. Just don't say it.{relatedarticles}
If you're not interested in them, be respectful and tell them; don't make them feel unworthy or unattractive. That won't result in a fun experience for either of you.
I think the condom just broke.
If you want to throw your partner into a full-blown panic attack and completely ruin the mood, then say this line. Nothing is more frightening or heart-stopping to a single man or woman than a pregnancy scare, so unless you're totally sure, don't go there.
By the way, this is never a funny joke.
A lot of etiquette rules go out the window in the bedroom: girls can talk dirty and it's OK to be sweaty around the opposite sex. One thing that doesn't change though: the importance of your words. Whether it's in the heat of the moment or not, your words mean something. If you let something slip that shouldn't have, it could come back to haunt you, ruining your night or even your relationship. So do yourself a favor, and avoid these 10 terrible things to say in the bedroom. Your sex life (and your future partners) will thank you for it.
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Missionary is the go-to position for having sex, and although popular, it can get old quickly. After a couple hundred times, it's missionary accomplished.
Believe it or not, spicing up your sex life can be as simple as changing positions. Why not think outside the box? A turn here or a twist there can actually make all the difference in the world. If your sex life needs a boost, here are some alternative positions you can try that don't require you to be as flexible as an acrobat.
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SIDEWAYS SEX
How about sideways sex? In this position, the woman is in control, making it more exciting. To accomplish this move properly, the man lies down on his side with his legs apart and knees bent. Then the woman positions herself at a right angle.
With her hands at the man's leg and chest, she rocks back and forth, controlling the movement until she finds the right spot. It takes some wiggling and can take a while to get the positions just right. But why not enjoy the ride?
FACE TO FACE
Face to face is also a great position to learn because you are, as the name implies, face-to-face with your partner, making for a more intimate encounter. It's also good if you're in the mood for slow sex. To give this position a shot, sit on opposite sides of each other. Take a seat on top of him after sliding into his lap. Your legs go behind him, like a cradle.
Then you just rock back and forth until you get an orgasm, which may likely happen simultaneously in this position. Although great for romantics, this position may be too slow for some people.
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REVERSE COWGIRL
Reverse cowgirl is a position that men -- and women -- really go wild for as well. The man lies on his back with his legs on the bed over the edge of the bed. You get on top, facing away from your man. Similar to doggy-style, the man enters from behind. Rock back and forth until he hits the right spot.
This position is excellent for hitting the G-spot without too much time and effort, as the woman controls the speed and movement. If you're up for something new, the cowgirl is definitely the way to go. Keep in mind that some people aren't up for the ride as there is no face-to-face contact.
SPIDER
Become a spider man -- and woman. Facing opposite each other, both partners lie down and bring up their knees as the man enters the woman. Then all you need to do is wiggle, and if you do it nice and slow, it can last a long time. Although great for those who are tired but want long-lasting sex without much effort, some people might get bored.
SPOON SPLIT
The Spoon Split is a position that makes many women feel naughty. From a spooning position, the man takes the woman's top leg and drapes it across his. This makes the hips widen, allowing the man to go in deep and easily access the woman's clitoris. Women usually love this position, as it's naughty and intimate at the same time, great for women who like it a little wild.
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STANDING RHYTHM
Standing Rhythm is a position that many men (and some women) fantasize about. It involves the woman bending over a couch (or table or other object of similar height) as she spreads her legs. It's easy for the man to thrust deeply from this position and the intensity is kicked up a notch if the man rotates the woman's hips. A naughty but exciting position to try when the moment strikes.
SLIPPERY NIPPLE
A slight twist to the standard missionary position, the Slippery Nipple allows the woman to lie there, but the man has his hands free and does all the work. What woman wouldn't like that? As the man sits upright, the woman lies on her back and puts her legs on his chest, resting feet on his shoulders. The man does the work, while the woman enjoys herself. The man also has his hands free, so he can touch the woman however he pleases. The position is good if you want to shake up your normal sex routine a little, but not too much.
MAGIC BULLET
The Magic Bullet is a great position for women because it allows your man to hit your G-spot quickly. As the woman lies on her back with her legs straight up in the air, the man kneels across from her and enters. This position is great for guys because they can use their hands to move your legs closer to feel fuller inside the woman.
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He can also touch the woman however he likes. Although a good position for lazy women, it may be boring for more adventurous types. Plus, your legs become achy if they're up in the air too long.
THE PERFECT SPREAD
A slight alternative to the woman on top, this sex position has the woman assume the same position, but with her legs spread as wide as possible. Then, with her hands on the man's chest, she rocks back and forth. The spreading of the legs works well because it allows for deeper penetration, which will benefit both the man and the woman.
However, it helps to be fairly limber in order to pull off this sexy stunt. Stretching for so long can make your legs sore after awhile. For the woman who likes to be in control, this is the go-to position.
DIRTY DANCING
Dirty Dancing is similar to sex while standing, but instead relies on the man to lean back on a wall. The man faces the woman and holds her. The woman wraps her legs around the man and they rock together.
This position is great for both partners, as the closeness feels extremely intimate. Also the man can easily access the woman's breasts and the woman can control the penetration. This is a good position for a quickie, but it can be a difficult to maneuver if the man has trouble keeping steady, has no support or if you have a substantial difference in height.
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After awhile, the missionary position can feel more like work than play. Variety is the spice of life, and it's no different for sex. So why spice up your sex life with one of these new positions? We're betting you'll quickly find a new favorite .
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