* Go shopping or spend time with good friends, just goofing around without any worries.
* Develop new friendships and interests to energize yourself and enjoy a new sense of creativity.
* Learn to be more assertive in the moment and state your needs without hurting others.{relatedarticles}
* Set new boundaries so you can garner more respect and appreciation from your partner. Don't forget you trained your partner to treat you the way he does now; you just need to notch it up to a new and healthier level.
Most of all, commit to having more fun in your relationship. Support each other in your individual strengths and encourage each others growth. Respect each other's differences but most of all, be authentic.